I hear you. You want to just be a mum.
Like other mums, who have a peace of mind.
A mum. Not a teacher, not a full time researcher of all things therapy, not a nurse, not a carer.
A mum. Who is feeling really connected to your child, happy and content, knowing that your child is happy. Smiling at you. Running to you to give you a hug. Talking to you.
You want to be able to do simple things with them – read a bedtime story, play a game of chase, hear your child saying “mummy, look at me” – whilst going high up on the climbing frame or down the slide on the playground.
Simple things like you asking them to put their shoes on – and in response see them going to get their shoes and put them on. without being afraid to trigger a meltdown.
Comfort them when they are hurt and come to you for safety – with them settling in your arms and calm and peace restored with cuddles.
Drop them off at nursery or school with your heart at peace. Without dreading a phonecall to come and pick them up.
Take them to different places and enjoy a day out together. Without worrying what might happen – what if they are overwhelmed… again.
See them running around playing with other kids whilst you catch up with other mums and tell them how well it’s going.
Have a conversation. Feel that they trust you.
Feel that you are a good parent.
I am here to help you make this possible.
I know that right now all this seems way out of reach. But it doesn’t have to be.
